Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Sometimes, that's just how it happens.

I swear, people have brought this up to me on multiple occasions and I'm kind of annoyed with giving long drawn out answers, or maybe some people just like to try and start drama.  Well, hopefully this will help, the long story of how sometimes, it just happens.  


About 8 months ago, I was just sitting around in my room, gaming most likely, when my sister tells me about a website she decided to try using.  This website was called www.okcupid.com.  She advocated for the site saying it was a good way to meet some new people and potentially find someone to date.  I, having not been in a relationship for 2 years nor wanting was convinced by my sister to sign up and try using it.  I found an interesting girl named Sarah on the site and we started talking.  2 months later we started dating.  Now, the "drama" comes from some people saying that Sarah and I would never work out.  I never understood where people got the information from or why they made these assumptions.  Saying, oh, she looks like shes from an entirely different "social stereotype"  implying I'm more alternative.  Or, oh shes a successful college student and you graduated high school a year late.  Well I'm here to tell you, 6 months later, we are happy together despite all these apparent "differences"  and we even lived together for 5 weeks.  


Our relationship came about completely unintentional, and even she was skeptical about dating me at first.  Well, seems like we went against the odds in the worlds apparent "relationship rules" huh?  Sometimes, that's just how it happens